Some men just don’t want to put things up their butt, regardless of the amazing orgasms, health benefits, or sexual freedom that come with prostate stimulation.
You’re okay! Everyone is allowed to investigate their own bodies in whatever way they see fit.
Though the gland is most easily accessed by anal insertion, this does create a slight issue if you’re interested in prostate stimulation.
Fortunately, external prostate massage is a somewhat more gentle method of stimulating the prostate.
What is External Prostate Massage?
The act of stimulating the prostate gland without putting anything into your body is known as external prostate massage. In order to accomplish this, we must massage the perineum, a very specialized area of the body
Everybody has a perineum, which is a little skin region at the base of the torso. It passes between the bottom of the vagina and the anus in women, and between the scrotum and the anus in men.
Depending on where you live, the perineum goes by a variety of names, including gooch, chode, and even taint.
Call it what you will, this small patch of skin serves as our entryway to the prostate gland.
Your perineum feels like it has two halves if you were to feel it right now. The two halves are very different in softness. This is because of what’s located subcutaneously.
The penile bulb, or inner portion of the penis, is covered by the anterior half of the perineum. The only place we would actually feel pressure if we applied pressure to this would be the penis.
Fortunately, there is far less underneath the back of the perineum. Your prostate gland is separated from you by a small number of veins and nerves rather than by a large number of rigid, thick muscles. To activate our prostate, we should massage this important location.
Finding the Right Spot
Even though it seems rather easy, it is often challenging to determine whether you are massaging in the right area. Fortunately, our body will alert us to the presence of the prostate with a simple response. Most guys experience a need to pee.
But that doesn’t mean you have to leave to use the restroom! Prostate stimulation often leads to a need to urinate.
Our prostate will remain in a resting position most of the time, allowing urine to pass from the bladder to the urethra when necessary. It clenches strongly during ejaculation, sealing those tubes and allowing semen to depart the body in its place.
How to Massage The Prostate Externally
Once you’ve determined which area of the perineum to massage, you can begin rubbing your prostate!
Since everyone has different interests, we are unable to offer extremely specific advice on this. While some people like stronger, quicker movements, others prefer softer, more delicate touches. Try various things to determine what suits you best!
It might be a good idea to research some massage techniques if you start to struggle. These don’t have to be approaches only for massaging the prostate. The perineum responds effectively to any movement that is utilized to excite other body regions!
Other Positions for External Prostate Massage
While massaging a certain area of the perineum is the most popular technique for external prostate massage, some men discover that they may activate it from slightly various angles.
Feel the area where your penis meets your scrotum at its base while you are erect. The inner part of your penis will be the area you feel the most, but if you locate the appropriate position, you might notice something… different.
You’ve found the prostate gland!
Try applying pressure on various parts of your body to see if you can discover the angle that is most comfortable for you. Simply pay attention, and if you find yourself urgently in need of a urinal, you’ve undoubtedly arrived at the right spot!
External Prostate Orgasms
Internal and external massage both lead to orgasms in precisely the same way. Regretfully, it’s far more difficult. Many men will never experience an orgasm only from external massage.
But if you’re committed, don’t give up! Try to experience the pleasant emotions as much as you can by concentrating on them. Allow them to invade every muscle in your body and radiate forth.
Never Fear Taking Things Inside!
We nevertheless urge you to try it, even if you believe you’ll never be comfortable sticking anything in your butt! Men that prefer anal are not inherently gay or bad. It’s just one additional bodily part for you to discover.
You will almost surely appreciate internal massage if you find that you prefer external prostate massage. If you are not carrying a prostate massager toy, don’t worry. To experience a different form of prostate massage, simply begin with a few secure homemade models. It’s also a lot easier to achieve an orgasm and you can feel far stronger emotions! For additional information, see our guide on prostate massage if you’re still unsure!
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